As we all know, motivation is one of the main keys to learning. In this book, well known educator and author Richard Lavoie talks about how there isn’t a ‘one size fits all’ when it comes to motivating children to learn.

I found this book to be a good read as Lavoie discusses the different motivational styles and the book is filled with techniques and strategies that can be used to encourage children to learn. He also addresses and offers suggestions to help motivate children with learning difficulties.

The Motivation Breakthrough is insightful, thought provoking, practical and filled with examples, which I think would be very useful for both parents and teachers who are trying to break through a child’s discouragement and inspire them to succeed.

Melanie

As part of our ongoing professional training at Hils, we were given the task of reading a book that would give us more knowledge and more insight to apply in our everyday work with our students. I chose a book about teenagers, “How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk” by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish, partly because many of my students are teens or pre-teens and also because I have two teenagers myself!!! (No wonder the grey hair and the appearance of more wrinkles!!). In this age of too many digital gadgets that accelerate our lives, keep us constantly wired denying any free time and giving us hardly any time to “be”, communication is of the essence: Constructive and empowering communication is what I mean. Teenagers, as we all well know go through a period of discovering themselves and establishing self identity and self acceptance. In this book the authors point out that it is not so important what we say but HOW we say it. Instead of evaluating, we need to describe what we see, describe what we feel, be it positive or negative. Sometimes kids make parents angry and vice versa. In this case, both parties need to say what they feel or what they expect instead of counterattacking. Feelings need to be acknowledged with a sound or word, like “ouch” or “I see” and then identify the feeling “that must be very frustrating/painful/scary. Nobody likes to be frustrated/hurt/scared”. Instead of put downs, listen with a nod, a sound or a word. Instead of dismissing thoughts and feelings, put thoughts and feelings into words. When there is a conflict or problem we need to work it out together. First open the communication channel by inviting your teenager to give her/his point of view (without interrupting). Then state your point of view (without interrupting). Next step, invite your teen to brainstorm with you. Write down all ideas without evaluating. Finally review your list and decide which ideas you want to put into action. I have tried it and it really makes a difference!! I recommend this book to all parents and educators working with teens. As usual, what it boils down to is making a conscious effort and to be consistent in applying the learned strategy whenever we can. Changing patterns of communication is not easy, being aware of the need to change is the first step in the right direction.
Marina

We see so many children struggle with memory, attention and language- which are all very important elements of learning.

The Hils staff are working on online tutorials to gain better understanding and deeper knowledge in these areas. We are also learning alternate strategies and techniques that can be used to help children with these difficulties.

We are happy to report that Miki has ‘graduated’ from Hils, after being with us for 6 years.

She will be furthering her studies at McGill University in Montreal. We will miss her but wish her all the best as she embarks on the next exciting chapter of her life.

We had our Parent Support Group night last Tuesday, and this was a big success. The session, chaired by Hannie, focused on Games and Learning. Both parents and staff had a fun time learning, playing and exploring the educational aspects of various card and board games.

Educational games provide a type of fun learning environment that unconsciously helps foster a wide range of skills, such as problem-solving, communication, planning, cooperation and goal setting. They also help students learn from their mistakes and develop high order thinking skills, all the while, having fun!

Look out for our next Parent Support Group night session. We will be looking at Nutrition and its Effects on Children.